Playful intimacy coaching
"If you want to be good at something, get a coach."
~ every athlete ever
Somatica® Coaches: I'm all yours
An expert assistant when you need one
Supporting you (my fellow coaches) is my priority. When your client is ready to practice with a playful and safe male coach, I'm here to help. You can bring me in for just one session, or we can do a series.
Want me to step into one of your sessions as an assistant, an observer, or as a practice buddy for your client? Let's do it. If you have an in-person space, I'm happy to do sessions there. My fees are just direct donation to women's health charities, from you or your client.
Here's how it works:
- Contact me on the Alumni groups or instagram at @sex.and.mischief, and let's chat.
- You can share my Quick Intro link with your client to help them decide whether they're interested in having me join a session. If it seems like a good fit, let's book it!
- After the session, just send me the receipt for your (or your client's) donation to any women's health charity, and we're set to book another session.
Special skills
In addition to all of the standard intimacy and disinhibition exercises you may do with your clients already, I've got specialty training in a few areas which may be useful.
- BDSM and kink: Playfully introducing clients to the D/s world is something I practice and enjoy. From beginning impact and sense play to the dark side of CNC, we can explore within the safety of a playful container. This is my specialty, and I coach both Dom and sub.
- Roleplay: From dramatic to ridiculous, if there's a fantasy your client would like to play out, I'm ready.
- Rough play: As a gymnast and an acrobat, I bring both durability and decades of training in safely exploring physical movement. You probably won't be able to pin me to the floor, but I'd love you to try.
- Aftercare and cuddling: A snuggle of human contact and connection is usually how we finish a session, but it can also be the whole session. Sometimes that's perfect. I generate a lot of warmth, and enjoy sharing it.
About my schedule and boundaries
Schedule: I have a full-time job, so right now this is a "spare time whenever I've got it" thing. I'll do my best, and if your clients also have full-time jobs, it might just work out easily.
Boundaries: So far, it's just the Somatica® boundaries. I'll also be a champion of your boundaries, and those of your clients.
Other ways we can work together
In addition to one-on-one coaching, I'd love to talk about other ways to collaborate. Here are some things I enjoy:
Events and Workshops: When you're running a workshop, I can attend as your TA, assistant coach. or teaching partner.
Adult shopping buddy: If your client is new to adult toy stores, I can come along as a guide, to help them stay comfortable while they find something they'll like. Sometimes stores let customers try some items (such as crops and floggers), and I make a good practice subject.
Kink party wingman: Walking into a kink or sex party alone isn't easy, especially the first time. I'm here to help.
My wanna-do list
Here are some things I've never done but would love to try:
- Party team coaching: Imagine two sex coaches, one male and one female, at a birthday or bachelorette party, available for 20-minute quick private intro sessions. Guests could put their name on a list for whichever coach they want, and pick from a menu of Somatica® exercises. (Think "Up Against the Wall" or "Touch Me For Your Pleasure", or even "Talk About Whatever You Want While I Rub Your Feet") Or even spin a wheel and see which menu item it lands on.
What are your Core Desires?
Pleasure is a powerful teaching tool. With playful exercises designed to help tap into your erotic energy without shame or inhibition, Somatica® coaches provide ways to explore and discover your own desires.
Teaching a lover how to please you is the best gift you can give them. In addition to helping identify your core desires, our coaches teach you how to communicate them to a lover.
What are your Boundaries?
Understanding consent and boundaries is critically important to all human interaction, including erotic play.
Somatica® coaches provide practice escalating sexual interaction with ongoing mutual consent, as well as offering your lover a boundary without making it feel like rejection.
Fancy a Little Kink?
Role-play and dominance are fun and healthy parts of exploring your desires. The right coach can make space for you to explore edgy themes with zero shame and judgment.
Ever tried being a dominatrix? We can provide in-person coaching and practice with a playful sub.
Tired of being in charge? Strong gentle arms and a deep voice might just scratch that submissive itch.
Coaches
It all starts with finding a coach you'll enjoy practicing with, and that's going to be different for everyone.
This is our network: Somatica® provides a worldwide network of over 500 coaches, so you'll definitely find one that you love practicing with.
.EJ (he/him)
- Athlete and sci-fi nerd in the San Francisco Bay Area. A playful, mellow, adventurous practice buddy who can match whatever passionate energy you want to bring.
- Graduate of the Somatica® Institute.
- 100% of my coaching fees are direct donations from the client to women's health charities like these. See my Services and Fees section for details.
- You can message me on instagram at @sex.and.mischief
Allie (she/her)
- Dancing and sex are intimate expressions of desire, and I coach both. As a Zouk (Brazilian dance) instructor, I've learned to use attunement and passionate non-verbal communication to spice up all aspects of life.
- Graduate of the Somatica® Institute.
- You can message me on instagram at @allieraezouk
Leandra (she/her)
- My Mission: Helping you reclaim pleasure and connection.
- I am here to help you overcome cultural sexual shame and reclaim pleasure, intimacy, and connection.
- My practice is open to humans of all sexual orientations, gender identities, relationship structures, races, ages, abilities, religions, body types, kinks, and backgrounds.
- Somatica® Certified Coach
- You can message me on instagram at @intimacywithleandra
Anna (she/her)
- I empower individuals to unlock their potential, find fulfillment, and create lasting happiness. Let's embark on this journey together and discover the love and passion we deserve.
- 15 years experience, fluent in Russian and English
- Graduate of the Somatica® Institute.
- You can message me on instagram at @lovecoachanna