Playful intimacy coaching
"If you want to be good at something, get a coach."
~ every athlete ever
What are your Core Desires?
Pleasure is a powerful teaching tool. With playful exercises designed to help tap into your erotic energy without shame or inhibition, Somatica® coaches provide ways to explore and discover your own desires.
Teaching a lover how to please you is the best gift you can give them. In addition to helping identify your core desires, our coaches teach you how to communicate them to a lover.
What are your Boundaries?
Understanding consent and boundaries is critically important to all human interaction, including erotic play.
Somatica® coaches provide practice escalating sexual interaction with ongoing mutual consent, as well as offering your lover a boundary without making it feel like rejection.
Fancy a Little Kink?
Role-play and dominance are fun and healthy parts of exploring your desires. The right coach can make space for you to explore edgy themes with zero shame and judgment.
Ever tried being a dominatrix? We can provide in-person coaching and practice with a playful sub.
Tired of being in charge? Strong gentle arms and a deep voice might just scratch that submissive itch.
It all starts with finding a coach you'll enjoy practicing with, and that's going to be different for everyone.
This is me:
- Dotch (he/him) Athlete and sci-fi nerd in the San Francisco Bay Area. A playful, mellow, adventurous practice buddy who can match whatever passionate energy you want to bring. I'm a graduate of the Somatica® Institute.
- Note: I'm currently only accepting new clients by referral, but contact me on instagram at @sex.and.mischief and I'll help you find the right coach!
- 100% of my coaching fees are direct donations from the client to women's health charities. See my Services and Fees page for details.
This is my network:
Somatica® provides a worldwide network of over 500 coaches, so you'll definitely find one that you love practicing with.